Firstly we must consider who we are as being in the image of God. This issue was covered well by The Pilgrim’s Protest, so I will not go into much detail, but we have to be aware that as individuals bought with a price we are not our own. Our desire to look good, to attract others, to be hip, to be up to date with fashion must all meet their end at the foot of the cross. These things are not bad, but each and every one of us need to search out hearts, beg for God to search our hearts, and turn away from any type of idolatry in the form of appearance that we may have.
Secondly we must consider love. Not love on some grand level, but more practically. What do we love? This ties in closely with the first part and also third part of our problem. We must determine what it is that we love. We have to determine the priority of the things we love. Our love for material things should never outweigh our love for our brothers and sisters. So whether you agree with Baron O’Neal and the nameless professor, you cannot ignore the fact that the issue raised is enough of a problem for at least two of your brothers and sisters in Christ to merit the treatment it received. If only for these two individuals, we need to open a dialogue on the issue.
Sisters, if only one of your brothers in Christ is affected by your dress why would you not strive to do everything in your power to help him? Brothers, if you know of sisters who stumble because of your appearance then why would you not try and rectify the situation? This is not the place the blame of your sinful thoughts on others, but rather to show that you do not live in a vacuum. Your clothes, you appearance, is seen and experienced by everyone around you. Because of the love that we have for each other as brothers and sisters in Christ, can we please at least be aware of this?
Lastly, let us consider humility. There is the obvious form of humility of being humble in our dress. But the issue of humility is much deeper than that, and extends well past the issue of modesty in dress. Humility is all but gone in America today. Evens acts that are praised as humble are feeble attempts at it. The lack of humility is quenching the community of CIU. We have become a campus of hundreds of individuals, and lost the idea of being one unified campus for Christ. Pride has caused the idea about confronting individuals about an issue to completely vanish. We would rather allow sin, or some other action that makes us feel uncomfortable, go unchecked than swallow our pride and talk to someone about it.
Allowing a brother in Christ to dress in a way that may offend you is far easier than talking to him about it. We certainly don’t want to look weak, and heaven forbid we burst his ego bubble. This has to stop. Because we are a unified body made of parts, all of which made in the image of God that love each other with the love of God, we must humbly communicate about such issues. Not for our sake, but so that we can better spread the Gospel.
The truth is that yes, these articles are somewhat offensive. That is because they tear open doors that we don’t want to open, but in reality, these conversations should be commonplace among the Body. We have to get over ourselves and talk. If you feel modesty is a problem then you should not be afraid to lovingly seek dialogue. I pray that we can allow this conversation and hopefully the many more subsequent ones to bring us together, not drive us apart. Let us see our differing opinions as an opportunity to grow, not as an opportunity to flex our intellectual/moral/spiritual muscles in attempt to “one up” each other.